700+ High Achievers Have Transformed Their Relationship with Alcohol Now It’s Your Turn
Struggling to cut back? Feeling stuck in old patterns? You’re not alone. Hear from those who were exactly where you are—and found a way forward with Complete Control.
“If you’re sitting on the fence and you’re thinking: ‘Well it sounds really good, but eek who are these people?’
Do what I did, just take a leap of faith. Believe in yourself in doing this. Apply yourself to it. It’s by far the best thing I ever did for myself. A great investment, a lot of fun, great knowledge and self-exploration. I'm thrilled with it. Give it a go.”
— Diane, UK
— Paul, US
“My family has seen a changed in me for the better. As in the tolerance levels. As far as my business is concerned, I'm performing better than I have in years. I've got my business mojo back.”
— Tracey, UK
“What I’ve tried in the past was willpower, quitting for multiple months, maybe a year. I can willpower through that but I didn’t work on myself internally and I think that’s kind of what made this whole experience different for me.”
— Derek, US
“I realized that the reason I was turning to a glass of wine on a Friday night is because I was racing 100 mph every single day of my life—working hard, playing hard, training hard and it was the only way I could switch off, was to reach for the wine. The program also taught me the reasons why I’m racing through my life 100 mph. It’s been completely life- changing for me. I’m enjoying life more than ever.”
— Jill, UK
You’ve mastered so many areas of your life. Your career, your business, your responsibilities you handle it all.
But when it comes to alcohol? That’s a different story.
Maybe you’ve tried cutting back before. Maybe you’ve set rules, taken breaks, or sworn off drinking for a while—only to find yourself back in the same cycle.
One drink turns into two. A social occasion turns into a habit. And suddenly, alcohol is running the show again.
You tell yourself, “I’m in control.”
But deep down, you know alcohol has more power over you than you’d like to admit
And the longer you put off dealing with it, the more it’s costing you.
- Your health
Poor sleep, brain fog, and anxiety that lingers longer than your last drink. - Your relationships
Disconnected from the people who matter most. - Your confidence
wondering why this part of your life feels out of control when you’re so capable in every other area. - Your future
Because deep down, you know this pattern isn’t sustainable. But deep down, you know alcohol has more power over you than you’d like to admit.
It’s not that you want to quit drinking completely. You just want it to stop being a problem
You want to feel in control—where alcohol is something you can genuinely take or leave, rather than something you have to manage.
And here’s the truth: It’s absolutely possible.
You don’t need more willpower. You don’t need to declare yourself an alcoholic. You just need the right system to take back control.
Keep reading. Because what you’re about to discover will change everything.
It starts the same way every time
You’ve mastered so many areas of your life. Your career, your business, your responsibilities—you handle it all.
But when it comes to alcohol? That’s a different story.
Maybe you’ve tried cutting back before. Maybe you’ve set rules, taken breaks, or sworn off drinking for a while—only to find yourself back in the same cycle.
One drink turns into two. A social occasion turns into a habit. And suddenly, alcohol is running the show again.
You tell yourself, “I’m in control.”
You’re exhausted
Your sleep was terrible, your focus is shot, and the anxiety lingers longer than it should. And this isn’t just a one-time thing. It’s a pattern. A cycle you can’t seem to break.
Maybe you set rules—only drinking on weekends, only two drinks max. Maybe you take breaks, proving to yourself that you can stop if you really want to. But somehow, alcohol keeps sneaking back in.
A drink to unwind after a long day.
A glass to celebrate a win.
Just one at a work event—because everyone else is drinking.
And before you know it, you’re right back where you started.
You tell yourself it’s fine. You’re not an alcoholic. You’re successful, you have your life together. But deep down, you know alcohol has more control over you than you’d like to admit.
Your sleep is suffering. You wake up tired, groggy, unmotivated.
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Your energy is drained. You’re not as sharp, focused, or productive as you used to be.
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Your confidence is slipping. You hate feeling like this, but you don’t know how to change it.
And worst of all? You’re starting to wonder if this is just who you are now
Because no matter how much you try to cut back, you always end up in the same place.
You’re tired of the guilt, tired of the broken promises, tired of feeling stuck.
But what if this didn’t have to be your reality anymore?
What if you could take back control—without relying on willpower, without quitting completely, without feeling like you’re missing out?
Because the truth is, you can.
Keep reading. Because the way out starts here.
Now imagine waking up feeling clear, refreshed, and fully in control
No grogginess. No anxiety. No scrolling through your phone trying to piece together the night before.
Just a deep, uninterrupted sleep that leaves you feeling energized and ready to take on the day.
You head into work with sharp focus, full confidence, and zero regrets.
You’re present in conversations.
You remember details.
You feel like the leader, the parent, the partner you’re meant to be.
And the best part? Alcohol isn’t running the show anymore
You’re not avoiding social events, making excuses, or white-knuckling your way through nights out. Instead, you feel in control—completely at ease whether you’re drinking or not.
Because when you understand what’s really driving your drinking, you stop needing it.
You don’t have to “resist” alcohol. You simply don’t want it the same way anymore.Keep reading. Because what you’re about to discover will change everything.
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You wake up proud of yourself—not full of guilt.
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You show up as the best version of you—not just in work, but in your relationships.
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You feel powerful—no longer at the mercy of a habit that once felt impossible to break.
This isn’t a dream
This is exactly what’s waiting for you on the other side.
And the best part? It’s completely within your reach.
You don’t have to quit drinking forever. You don’t have to struggle through it alone. You just need a proven system to rewire your relationship with alcohol—so that you can take it or leave it without a second thought.
And that’s exactly what we’ll show you how to do.
Myth #1: “If I had more willpower, I’d be able to control my drinking.”
You’ve tried cutting back. Setting rules. Taking breaks. You tell yourself, “This time, I’ll be stronger.”
But when stress hits—or a drink is poured—you cave. And each time, you wonder what’s wrong with you.
Here’s the truth: Willpower has nothing to do with it.
Willpower is a limited resource. It works in the short term—until it doesn’t. The harder you push, the more exhausted you become. And when life gets stressful, willpower runs out—leaving you right back where you started.
The truth: Alcohol isn't the problem—it's the way your brain has been conditioned to see it.
When you change your relationship with alcohol at a subconscious level, you don’t need willpower. You don’t have to “fight” the urge to drink—you just won’t feel the same pull anymore.
That’s real control.
Myth #2: “Drinking helps me relax, have fun, and be social.”
You tell yourself that alcohol makes things easier—that without it, life will be dull, stressful, or isolating.
But think about it.
How often has drinking actually helped you feel better in the long run?
.How often have you woken up more energized,
confident, and in control after a night of drinking?
.How many times has alcohol actually improved
your relationships, your focus, your wellbeing?
The idea that alcohol makes life better is one of the biggest lies we’ve been sold.
The truth: Alcohol doesn’t make you more fun, more relaxed, or more social. It numbs you.
Real confidence comes from being present, engaged, and in control. And when you’re free from the mental and physical toll of drinking, you don’t need alcohol to enjoy yourself—you’re just fully there.
And that’s when life actually gets better.
Myth #3: “The only way to fix this is to quit drinking forever.”
This is exactly why you’ve resisted taking action. You
don’t want to commit to a life of “never again.”
And you don’t have to.
Because the problem isn’t alcohol—it’s your relationship with it.
Right now, alcohol feels like something you need—to relax, to connect, to cope. But when you understand why you drink the way you do, that feeling changes.
The truth: You don’t have to quit drinking forever —you just need to change the way alcohol fits into your life.
When you rewire your patterns, you stop feeling like alcohol is controlling you. You don’t have to resist it. You don’t have to “be good.” You just don’t want it the same way anymore.
And that’s real freedom.
A blueprint for change
Once you see these myths for what they are, you’re free from them.
And once that shift happens, everything changes. This is where transformation begins. Because now that you see the real problem, you’re finally ready for the real solution. And that’s exactly what we’re going to give you.
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You stop blaming yourself for “failing” at moderation.
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You realize alcohol doesn’t actually add anything to your life.
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You see that real control means getting more —not giving something up.
If you’ve made it this far, then you already know: getting control over alcohol isn’t about quitting forever, relying on willpower, or following rules that don’t work.
It’s about understanding the real reasons behind your drinking habits and rewiring them—so alcohol no longer has control over you.
But maybe what you didn’t know is that there’s a clear, science-backed method to do exactly that
A method designed specifically for high-achieving professionals who want full control over their drinking—without labels, guilt, or extreme restrictions.
A method that helps you:
- Shift the way you see alcohol—so it no longer feels like something you need.
- Understand and reprogram your triggers—so you stop falling into the same patterns.
- Create real, lasting change—without relying on willpower or sheer determination.
- Upgrade your mindset, habits, and identity—so you can enjoy life on your terms.
No more setting rules and breaking them.
No more wondering if you’ll ever be able to control this.
No more waking up with regret, telling yourself this has to stop.
Instead, you’ll have a structured, proven system to regain control—without stress, struggle, or sacrifice.
And if you’re still with me, then I couldn’t be more excited to introduce you to Complete Control: the only program designed to help high-performers master their drinking habits—without quitting completely.
Who Am I to Tell You This?
I’m Jen Fairbairns, and for years, I thought I had control.
I spent my career in the high-pressure world of
fashion modelling, where alcohol wasn’t just accepted
—it was part of the job. The parties, the events, the
constant pressure to be ‘on’—it all felt normal. Until it
wasn’t just accepted—it was part of the job. The
parties, the events, the constant pressure to be ‘on’—it
all felt normal. Until it wasn’t.
When I became a mother, everything shifted. But the pressure didn’t disappear—it just changed.
Post-natal depression hit me hard, and I struggled to hold onto my identity. The stress, the exhaustion, the never-ending to-do list—it all felt overwhelming.
And alcohol became my escape.
I told myself the same things you probably have: It’s just a drink to relax. I deserve this. I can stop whenever I
want. But deep down, I knew the truth. I wasn’t in control. And that terrified me. That was the moment I knew I had to make a change. But I didn’t want to quit completely—I wanted to take
back control of my choices, not live by someone else’s rules. So I started asking different questions. Instead of focusing on alcohol itself, I looked at the real reasons I drank. The stress. The expectations. The
habits I’d built without even realising it. And as I worked through those, something incredible happened:
alcohol lost its grip on me.
I wasn’t relying on willpower. I wasn’t counting days. I was simply… free. That’s exactly why we created Complete Control.
At OYNB, we believe changing your relationship with alcohol should feel empowering—not like a punishment. We believe in science-backed behaviour change, real accountability, and practical tools that fit your life.
No labels. No guilt. No rules to follow forever. Just you, back in the driver’s seat.
If you’ve made it this far, you already know: this isn’t about alcohol. It’s about control. And that’s exactly what we’re here to help you take back.
Introducing Complete Control
The 8-week coaching program designed for high achievers like you to take back control of alcohol—so it no longer controls you.
For years, you’ve tried to cut back. Set rules. Sworn that this time will be different.
But the cycle continues. The stress, the overthinking, the self-negotiation. Should I? Shouldn’t I? Just one?
It’s exhausting.
You don’t need more willpower. You need a new approach.
Complete Control helps you understand the real drivers behind your drinking—so you can break free for good. No more guilt, no more “starting over.” Just a clear, proven path to a balanced, fulfilling life where alcohol is no longer in charge.
Because when you change the way you think about alcohol, you change everything.
And this time, it sticks.
Your Step-by-Step Journey to Complete Control
Breaking free from alcohol isn’t about restriction or willpower—it’s about transformation. This program isn’t just about quitting drinking; it’s about gaining control, rewiring your habits, and stepping into the most powerful version of yourself.
Over eight structured weeks, you’ll dismantle old beliefs, break free from automatic behaviors, and build a life where alcohol simply doesn’t fit anymore.
Instead of relying on willpower, you’ll be equipped with the right strategies, coaching, and community to make lasting change feel natural.
From shifting your mindset and overcoming triggers to mastering social situations and creating powerful habits, every week builds upon the last, guiding you toward lasting confidence, clarity, and control.
This isn’t about “giving something up.” It’s about gaining something better—a life where you’re in charge, present, and fully free.
PLUS The Ultimate Support System: Coaching, Community & Cutting-Edge Tools for Deep Transformation
The journey to complete control isn’t just about what you learn—it’s about who you become.
And the fastest way to become that version of yourself?
Surround yourself with the right support, tools, and expert guidance to make success inevitable.
That’s why this program isn’t just content—it’s a fully immersive, high-touch transformation experience. You
won’t be doing this alone.
Every step of the way, you’ll have access to elite coaching, a powerful community, and science-backed
techniques designed to rewire your mind, shift your identity, and keep you moving forward.
Here’s how we make your success unavoidable:
1:1 Coaching for Personalized Breakthroughs
You’ll work with two expert coaches, each specializing in a different—but equally essential aspect of transformation:
- Behavioral & Mindset Change Coach – Helps you uncover the thought patterns, habits, and beliefs keeping you stuck, and provides personalized strategies to break free.
- Trauma-Informed Coach – Supports you in healing the emotional root causes of compulsive behaviors, ensuring your changes last a lifetime.
These are not ‘talk therapy’ sessions. Every call is designed for rapid breakthroughs, real-time strategies, and deep transformation.
Group Coaching: Strength in Numbers, Success in Community
Every week, you’ll join powerful group coaching calls where you’ll:
- Gain new insights from others on the same path, so you never feel alone.
- Get expert guidance in real-time, so you’re always clear on your next step.
- Feel deeply supported and understood, because everyone here gets what you’re going through.
This is where connection, accountability, and momentum skyrocket.
A Private, High-Achiever Community That Won’t Let You Fail
This isn’t just another Facebook group.
- You’ll be part of an exclusive, high-touch community of driven individuals who are committed to stepping into their highest potential.
- Get daily check-ins, prompts, and encouragement from expert coaches and peers who genuinely want to see you win.
- No judgment. No shame. Just radical support, real conversations, and shared success.
- Because when you’re surrounded by people who are leveling up, you level up too.
These are not ‘talk therapy’ sessions. Every call is designed for rapid breakthroughs, real-time strategies, and deep transformation.
Breathwork & Hypnotherapy: Rewiring Your Mind from the Inside Out
That’s why we go beyond traditional coaching and provide cutting-edge mind-body tools to help you reprogram your subconscious and shift into a new identity.
You’ll experience:
- Hypnotherapy sessions to break unconscious patterns, reduce cravings, and rewire your beliefs at the deepest level.
- Breathwork sessions designed to calm your nervous system, build emotional resilience, and create a powerful mind-body connection.
These aren’t just nice-to-haves—they’re the fastest, most effective ways to change the way you think, feel, and act for good.
This isn’t just a program it’s a complete, 360-degree transformation system
You’re not just learning—you’re being supported, guided, and reprogrammed for success.
You’re not doing this alone—you’re surrounded by experts and a high-level community that won’t let you fail.
You’re not just ‘quitting’ alcohol—you’re stepping into a new, unstoppable version of yourself.
This is how you make real, lasting change.
And it all starts here.
Q1: I want to do this, but I’m already juggling so much. How much time will this take?
We hear you! You’re busy, and the last thing you need is another time-consuming program that adds stress to your life. That’s why Complete Control is designed for real people with real responsibilities.
In just 30-45 minutes a day, you’ll gain insights that will completely shift your mindset and relationship with alcohol. And unlike traditional approaches that rely on willpower, what you learn here will make staying alcohol-free feel natural—not like another thing on your to-do list.
Think of it this way: How much time have you already spent stressing about alcohol? Regretting your choices? Wondering if this is ‘just how it is’? If you commit a fraction of that time to this process, you’ll never have to worry about it again.
Q2: I’ve tried cutting back before and always end up back where I started. How is this different?
Most programs focus on removing alcohol—but that’s not the real problem. The real issue is why alcohol has had a grip on you in the first place.
Complete Control doesn’t just help you stop drinking—it helps you understand and rewire the patterns that make you want to drink in the first place. You’ll address the root causes, making it easier to break free without feeling deprived or like you’re constantly resisting temptation.
By the end of the program, you won’t just not be drinking—you’ll feel completely different about alcohol.
Q3: Do I have to quit forever?
Nope. This isn’t an all-or-nothing approach. You’re in control—that’s the whole point.
We help you uncover the deeper reasons behind your drinking and give you the tools to choose what’s best for you. Many people who go through the program naturally decide to continue living alcohol-free because they feel so much better. Others find they can enjoy a drink occasionally without falling back into old patterns.
Whatever path you choose, you’ll finally be making that decision from a place of clarity, not compulsion.
Q4: I’ve read books and listened to podcasts about quitting alcohol. What makes this program different?
Information alone isn’t enough—transformation comes from action.
Complete Control isn’t just about learning—it’s about experiencing a complete shift in your mindset, habits,
and identity. You’re not just reading about change—you’re actively creating it, with expert guidance,
coaching, and science-backed techniques that help you follow through.
This program also includes personalized 1:1 coaching, group coaching, hypnotherapy, and breathwork—
things no book or podcast can give you. It’s an immersive experience that reprograms your thinking in a way that makes lasting change inevitable.
Q5: What if I’ve already tried therapy, coaching, or AA?
That’s great—you’re clearly committed to change. But if you’re here, something is still missing.
Unlike traditional methods, we don’t focus on alcohol itself—we focus on YOU. We help you understand
the subconscious patterns, beliefs, and emotional drivers behind your drinking, so you can change them for
good.
And unlike AA or other one-size-fits-all approaches, this program is tailored to you. With 1:1 coaching, group
support, and powerful mind-body techniques, you’ll get exactly what you need to redefine your
relationship with alcohol on your own terms.
Q6: I’m worried I’ll lose my social life if I stop drinking. Will this make me boring?
You’re not alone in this fear. But the truth? Alcohol isn’t what makes you fun—YOU are.
One of the most powerful shifts you’ll experience in this program is realizing that you don’t need alcohol to
enjoy yourself, connect with others, or feel confident. In fact, most people find they become more
outgoing, more energized, and more present in their social lives when alcohol is no longer in control.
You’ll also learn practical strategies for navigating social situations with ease—so you never feel awkward,
pressured, or like you’re ‘missing out.’
Q7: Can you remind me of what I’m getting when I enroll today?
Absolutely. When you join Complete Control, you’ll get:
8 Weeks of Breakthrough Training – Daily videos, workbooks, and guided exercises designed to rewire your mindset and put you back in control.
1:1 Expert Coaching – Alternating sessions with a behavioral/mindset change coach and a trauma-informed coach to help you break through personal roadblocks.
Weekly Group Coaching Calls – A powerful space to share experiences, gain insights, and get expert guidance alongside a supportive community of high-achievers like you.
Hypnotherapy & Breathwork Sessions – Science-backed techniques to rewire your subconscious, reduce stress, and eliminate cravings.
Private Community & Daily Accountability – A dedicated space for connection, motivation, and expert guidance whenever you need it.
30-Day Breakthrough Guarantee – If you put in the work and don’t feel a significant shift within 30 days, we’ll refund you. That’s how confident we are in this process.
Q8: What if I’m still not sure?
That’s completely normal. Making a real change is a big deal, and your brain will try to resist it.
But here’s the thing: there’s never a ‘perfect time’ to do this. The only way to know if this works for you is to
try it. And with our 14-Day Breakthrough Guarantee, you have nothing to lose—except the struggle you’re
tired of dealing with.
If you’re still reading this, you already know this is something you want. Trust yourself. Take the first step.
You’ll never regret choosing yourself.
Eight weeks of structured coaching designed for high-achievers.
Daily guided lessons and workbooks based on neuroscience and behavioral science.
Private 1:1 coaching with experts in behavior change and trauma informed coaching.
Hypnotherapy and identity-shifting exercises to rewire habits at the root
Live weekly group coaching calls for accountability and support.
Private support community with fellow high performers who understand your journey.
This is your moment to take Complete Control
By now, you already know that breaking free from alcohol isn’t about willpower it’s about understanding yourself, rewiring your habits, and having a plan that actually works.
And that’s exactly what Complete Control gives you.
If you’re still reading this, let’s have some real talk:
If you’ve ever told yourself, “I’ll just cut back,” only to end up right back where you started you need Complete Control.
If you’re tired of feeling like alcohol has more control over you than you do over it you need Complete Control.
If you’ve tried going alcohol-free before but found yourself relying on willpower just to get through social situations, stress, or cravings you need Complete Control.
If you’ve ever woken up with regret, wondering why you keep repeating the same cycle you need Complete Control.
If you’ve felt the nagging frustration of knowing you’re capable of more, but alcohol keeps holding you back you need Complete Control.
And if you want to wake up every day feeling clear-headed, confident, and in control, finally proud of your choices instead of questioning them you already know what to do.
This isn’t just about drinking. This is about the life you want to create. The version of you that’s ready to stop making excuses and start making real, lasting change.
You’ve seen what’s possible. Now it’s time to make it real.
Click below to enroll today. We’ll be with you every step of the way.
